Wisdom involves taking care. So recognize, value and nurture art, skill, authenticity and mindful attention in all engagement with life, with each other, and in everything we create. Be rightfully proud when the beauty and functionality of quality co-creations enhance the quality of life for all, now and into the future.
Some related patterns: 2 Appreciative Thinking 20 Cooperative Ownership as Stewardship 28 Equity 53 Multi-Media Engagement
62 Possibility Thinking 75 Sacredness 88 Using Diversity and Disturbance Creatively
Caring into Quality – going deeper …
This is an edited version of the video on this page.
Caring about quality in this context involves caring about the quality of both ends and means. There is a sense of design and craftsmanship going on here. We want the things that we do to generate and manifest wisdom to have quality.
The care that is taken or can be taken in creating high-quality conversations can include having aesthetic spaces for people to talk in, spaces that have nature present, that have enough space and light, etc. You can include in your caring the design of powerful questions for people to consider, and the kinds of conversations that they are going to have with each other. There is an art to all this, and we’re going to take the time and attention to make that art and to celebrate it. That is quality of means.
And quality of ends includes having a beautiful space to live in, have life-giving wholesome spaces to live in. But that’s not all, by a long shot. My late partner Karen talked about how beauty can be a whole social change movement because poverty isn’t beautiful, war and hate and pollution aren’t beautiful. There is a way we can just focus on beauty and the quality, the attractiveness, the nurturance of whatever we’re trying to create. So there’s a way in which the quality of what we do and the quality of what we’re trying to create is a big part of bringing broad benefit to many people and many entities.
So we recognize, value and nurture art, skill, authenticity of expression, and mindful attention to our engagement. We seek and appreciate a high quality, beautiful, alive engagement with our partner, with our children, with our neighbors. We take pride in engaging that way with each other and with the situations we encounter.
Some people are particularly capable of engaging with life situations with a certain presence. They have an elegance about the way they deal with whatever is going on, they don’t get all upset and flustered, and they are there, really there. There’s something amazing, attractive, awesome about how people like that go about living their lives. One way of caring into quality is to have those people around, to celebrate them, and to try to imitate them as role models rather than imitating people who are violent and stupid. The is a quality of attention to them and from them that we value, that we want to model and encourage.