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Restorative Justice
Source: Ashland University
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The purpose of wise justice is to maintain and restore wholeness and balance in relationships and community. Punishment, and even rehabilitation, do not achieve this. So promote true healing of both crimes and systemic social injustice with honest communication among victims, offenders, and communities, as well as any needed amends and cultural and systemic changes.
Some related patterns: 39 Generative Interactions 58 Nurturing Social Capital 71 Realizing Essential Aspirations 80 Story 91 Whole Healing 92 Whole System in the Conversation 96 Working With Feelings
Restorative Justice – going deeper …
This is an edited version of the video on this page.
Usually the justice system, at least in the United States, is around 80-90% about catching criminals, punishing them, trying them, making sure they are guilty if they can, and then putting them in jail or killing them in some cases. This is not the kind of justice that a wise democracy is interested in. If you are trying to create long-term broad benefits, those broad benefits need to include the healing of damage that was done and the transformation of relationships that were torn by the damage that was done. So what we’re looking for here is renewed or newly created wholeness and balance.
So when somebody does something to somebody else, having them really hear each other’s experience is central. It doesn’t necessarily demand forgiveness. Very often forgiveness happens, but that’s not the point. The point is to fully hear each other, to have the different parties involved to be able to experience each other’s world, and to have the larger community present, too. Any harm that is done also harms the community – and the community was somehow involved in what happened. The larger system is part of the situation. People are isolated from each other or somebody was disrespected. Tremendous amounts of violent crime arise from shame, from people being disrespected or put down in various ways. Research shows that shame underlies most violent crime.
So the larger community, the larger society, needs to see itself as a collective entity that needs healing, and that needs to take responsibility. That’s the kind of thing you’re looking for in the conversations here: to have people really hear each other and take responsibility, to become conscious parts of both what happened and what is going to happen next, whatever that may be. So the healing is a coming back into a place where we can all take our proper role in making a positive difference in what’s going on.
Sometimes punishment changes people for the better but more often punishment just solidifies or worsens existing patterns of thought, feeling, and behavior. Somebody may have committed a minor crime and got put into a major prison. They learn from other prisoners how to defend themselves, how to fight, how to get their way when somebody else is stopping or messing with them. They may also be abused in the present situation where maybe they weren’t before and start developing patterns that are more defensive and violent than they had when they went into prison. Or in some cases they are learning violent ideologies. So the idea that punishment is simply a matter of “if you are afraid of punishment you will behave yourself” or “if you are punished you will change” – there’s a grain of truth in those ideas, but that grain is not nearly as large as we usually think. An awful lot of people end up going back in prison after they’ve been released – around 70% in the U.S.
Video Introduction (13 min)
Examples and Resources
- The Restorative Justice movement Link
- Navajo Justice – Link-Yazzie Link-Sorensen
- Nonviolent Communication Link-CII
- Truth and Reconciliation Commissions Link-Wikipedia
- Affirmative Action Link-Wikipedia
- Reparations and apologies from national leaders (for past collective crimes against other nations or groups)
Link-The Atlantic
Link-Australia.gov.au
Restorative Justice – There is a whole movement that promotes several variations of restorative justice. It basically follows this kind of logic that we are trying to restore health and wholesomeness to our communities and to the harmed relationships.
Nonviolent Communication is a healing process for conflict and a true hearing of what’s going on for the person or people who have been in conflict or been hurt.
Truth and reconciliation commissions – I think this was originally done in South Africa to look at the violations of human rights that occurred under Apartheid. There are other people who have been doing variations of it since then. Truth and reconciliation commissions represent an effort by a whole society to surface larger systemic violence that has happened and to take responsibility for it and have people who have committed crimes against humanity to be able to speak about what they did with less punishment because they are coming out and coming clean in terms of actually claiming responsibility and confronting people who have been affected by what they did.
This is such an important Pattern to understand and illuminate in our time of social injustices. It reminds me of when I helped teach middle schoolers awhile ago on how to give an apology which this really similar to this pattern. It can be so transforming when an apology is given in this fashion. When an apology is given with both parties not only hearing each other but repeating back what they have heard and then promising to do something specific to amend the hurt or deed. When an apology is given in this way it can become a real transformation for both parties.
Both Social Justice and giving a true apology have their root in shame. It is really coming out of the same tree. We are at a time when this is such an important concept and practice to implement if we are going to heal the many injustices we have incurred on our fellow humans. This is such a transformative process and Truth and Reconsiliation Commissions are such great examples.
I continue to marvel at the depth and breath of what you have accomplished with these cards. Thank you Tom!!!!
Thanks for these great insights, Susan! And I just realized, when you mentioned “shame”, that the Universal Participation pattern is potentially relevant and wisdom-enhancing here. What would happen and be involved if ALL parties moved beyond both blame and shame and gave apologies for their roles (since we are ALL participate in every unfolding) and worked together to CO-CREATE new assumptions, relationships and systems that would use our diverse roles and the disturbance of the identified “transgression” creatively to expand our insight and empathy and further our collective (and individual!) evolution? It boggles my mind. How can “social justice” become social wholeness (aliveness, healing, spirit, wellness, wholesomeness, etc. – including and transcending its usual focus on fairness and reparations)? Is that possible?
This is one of those ideas that works so well in the small – in the family, team, community, village level – that it feels important to establish as a baseline expectation from these smaller units out. In these settings, the identification of the victim, the offender, and causality might be reasonably available. It seems overly simple to me when dealing with issues of historical injustice or society-level systemic injustice, however, and likely to generate many unintended consequences.
I’d love to hear more on this, Elise. My first impulse is to highlight the fact that the pattern’s descriptions include the need to address systemic factors in restorative justice initiatives. But I have a feeling your sensitivity for and/or experience with the “unintended consequences” and the nuances of scale are surely greater than mine, so I’d like to tap your wisdom behind your post. I suspect it is important – and surely related to the Equity pattern https://www.wd-pl.com/28-equity-v2/…